I Wish I Learned These 4 Simple Steps Earlier in Life
- Osmarie Pico
- Feb 26, 2025
- 1 min read
Life moves fast. Too fast sometimes......
And for years, I found myself reacting to situations without really understanding them. I let emotions take over, made rushed decisions, and often felt like life was just happening to me.
👉 Then, I learned a simple but powerful four-step process that changed everything:
1️⃣ Stop – Before reacting, take a breath. Give yourself a moment to pause.
2️⃣ Reflect – Ask yourself: What’s really happening here? How do I feel? Why?
3️⃣ Identify – Get clear on the root of the situation. Is it fear? Ego? Misunderstanding? Opportunity?
4️⃣ React – After the first three steps, take action—but, with intention, not impulse.
This process has saved me from unnecessary stress, miscommunication, and energy-draining situations.
It has helped me become more mindful, make better decisions, and align with my highest self.
👉 I wish I learned it earlier because it has been a game-changer.
❓ What’s something you’ve learned that you wish you knew earlier?


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